Lives, Damned Lives and Statistics

The number of people living in unhappy relationships has more than doubled in five years, to over 1 million, according to an article in today's Mail Online which references some research by the Office for National Statistics.

Until just now, I didn't realise that the ONS asked any of us about misery, but it's made me start to wonder whether any of those questioned were required to put down exactly what it is about their partner that makes them so unhappy or if not, how can the researchers be sure that a respondent isn't just a miserable person who happens to be in a relationship?

And also: have the ONS extrapolated each response on the assumption that if one half of a relationship is dissatisfied with life, then it must follow that their other half is also, or is there some sort of leeway for the person in despair to have a spouse who thinks that everything’s fine?

All of which means that the figures quoted can't be considered as accurate, as it could be higher or lower, but there seems little to disprove the assertion that the actual number of unhappy adults in the country is increasing, And this, in a leap of statistical correlation somewhat along the lines of Henderson's Somali pirates and global warming, has been taken by some as proof that it is a financial recovery, rather than a recession, that chips away at marital bliss.

I'm not disagreeing with their assertion (only the statistical basis), but it might be that we were just as unhappy five years ago, but are now a little more honest when anonymously surveyed about our feelings, or that we are simply becoming less accepting of our current situations in an ever-shrinking world.